Bitterne Manor Primary School uses the NSPCC PANTS rule to help children learn how to keep themselves safe. With the support of the friendly PANTSaurus dinosaur, both staff at school and families at home can help children understand how to stay safe and protect themselves from harm.

Children are taught in an age-appropriate way that the parts of their bodies covered by underwear are private. These areas are not for other people to see or touch. They are also encouraged to talk to a trusted adult if anything happens that makes them feel upset, worried, or uncomfortable.

When's the right time to talk PANTS? 

Every family is different, and when and where you have these conversations may depend on your child's age, or how grown up they are - it's all about whatever feels natural for you and them.

Some examples of times you can talk PANTS are:

• After school – if they've had a lesson on personal relationships or Talk PANTS at school, ask them what they remember when they get home.
• Bathtime – you could start a conversation when you're running your child's bath, or helping them get dressed.
• Car journeys – this can be a great time to talk, and your child will have plenty of time to ask questions if they need.
• Reading our new PANTS storybook together.
• Singing – sing along to our PANTS song with Pantosaurus!
• Swimming – a great time to say that what's covered by swimwear is private.
• Walking – walking home from school, or a weekend walk to the shops can help you both feel more at ease as you stroll and chat.
• Watching TV – if a TV show features a sensitive storyline, you can encourage them to talk about anything that upsets them.