The online world is a big part of our lives. We use it to learn, play games, talk to friends and explore new ideas. It can be exciting and fun, but it is important that we know how to use it safely.
At Bitterne Manor, we work together, children, parents, carers and staff, to make sure everyone feels safe and happy online.
We follow something called the 3 Commons:
Common Courtesy
Common Decency
Common Sense
These help us make good choices whenever we go online.
Being kind online matters just as much as being kind in person.
We:
Ask before sharing photos or videos of someone.
Use kind words in games, messages and group chats.
Do not post unkind, rude or hurtful comments.
Remember that jokes can sometimes hurt feelings.
Treat others online the way we would like to be treated.
If we would not say it to someone’s face, we should not say it online.
The internet is not a place where rules disappear.
We:
Never post or share messages that are mean, racist, sexist or unkind about who someone is.
Do not join in with teasing, excluding or ganging up in group chats.
Do not forward messages or screenshots that could embarrass someone.
Tell an adult if we see something worrying or upsetting.
If we share something unkind, we become part of the problem.
If we report it, we become part of the solution.
Before we click, post or reply, we pause and think.
We:
Think before we share photos, videos or personal information.
Keep passwords private.
Check our privacy settings.
Are careful about talking to people we do not know in real life.
Remember that not everything online is true.
Tell a trusted adult if something makes us feel uncomfortable, confused or unsafe.
Block and report people who are unkind or make us feel worried.
If something does not feel right, it probably is not.
Children should always feel able to talk to an adult at home or at school if something happens online.
Everyone makes mistakes. What matters most is speaking up quickly so we can help.
By using common courtesy, common decency and common sense, we can make the online world a safer and kinder place for everyone.
The National Online Safety site has released the following posters. Each poster gives 'easy to read' advice for parents/carers of young children.
Internet Matters – UK site with tips on online risks, parental controls and talking to children about technology. https://www.internetmatters.org/
Thinkuknow – Advice from the National Crime Agency’s CEOP team for parents and children about staying safe online. https://www.ceopeducation.co.uk/
UK Safer Internet Centre – Online safety advice and practical tips for parents, carers, children and educators. https://saferinternet.org.uk/
Net Aware (NSPCC & O2) – Guide to popular social networks, games and apps with safety tips and age guidance. https://saferinternet.org.uk/
NSPCC Online Safety – UK charity site with advice on apps, online behaviour, cyberbullying, parental controls and more. https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/online-safety/
Childnet – UK charity offering conversation starters, toolkits and support for parents and carers. www.childnet.com
London Grid for Learning – Resources and guides for parents on online safety and secure remote learning. https://parentsafe.lgfl.net/